that most submissive men are very MUCH Men, they just know what they like,which is to please their Mistress in EVERY Way possible (within their limits) 12) Honesty is VERY important online, if you are married ADMIT it, there are a lot of other married folks online looking for something non-committal Just be open and honest, its the best thing to do .
but there aren't that a lot of quality submissive males ,if you are a quality sub... Don't do the cyber kneeling, serving coffee, rubbing feet and other silly crap In the main room (leave it for the dungeon), we don't go for that. its nothing to be ashamed of its unfortunate that many forget they were new once, and look down upon newbie's. Please remember when you are experienced that you were new once.
Take the time to demonstrate how intelligent and witty you are. The regulars in Collar Ncuffs will take the time to answer sincere questions. No question is too stupid or silly 8) Some subs here really stand out in Collar Ncuffs.
Many of us don't like being called Mistress by people not our collared subs.
Please remember not all 'female' sounding names are in fact females, femme'd male submissive also use female names. Take the time to get to know the Domme, chat in the room, greet people, ask questions. 3) Please, please, please IGNORE the idiots who say really rude things in the room.
Butt kissing is easy, making yourself interesting is a challenge.
Don't offer to submit to the first Domme who talks to you.If you expect it to shift into real time, for gawd sake, try to find someone who has more to offer you than just D/s.D/s is fun, D/s is good, but D/s is also not all there is in life.DON'T ask questions like, "What do you do with your sub? If you notice a sub who has the respect of the Dommes, sure envy him, but also watch him and learn from him!" or "What would you do to me if I were your sub." We don't do fantasy fodder wank material. What he is doing is working, he has the Dommes attention. I am a little confused by the subs who come in saying they are not worthy, if your not worthy why would a Domme want you?Establishing a presence as an intelligent, dominant person will go far to bring you to the attention of the intelligent, PICKY subs as a Domme worth having.