“If you care about the relationship, be accountable and willing to be an open book," says Rosenthal.
I was personally thrilled by the ultimatum given to the company, because offering illicit escapades to a married person having marriage trouble is like offering wine to an alcoholic.The first reaction in your mind is self-protective, accompanied by fear. It’s not my job to sugarcoat (I was referred to as the “iron fist” by some clients), so don’t get ahead of me. Here are the possibilities: to do is confront him, and you are probably wondering how.They put saving your “dignity” over saving your marriage.You wouldn’t be searching for help if you wanted to end your marriage. Time To Choose Your husband didn’t do what he did because he hates you.Now that we know the repercussions your "innocent" online chat can have on your relationship, the best way to avoid all the drama is to have an explicit agreement with your partner about what online behaviors are acceptable.
These behaviors may include things like keeping an active online dating profile, chatting with friends of the opposite sex, staying connected with an ex on social media, or even “liking” and commenting on posts of someone of the opposite sex.Relationship coaches and authors Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson urge couples to set clear ground rules on what’s considered cheating early in the relationship."Sometimes, one may not think they’re cheating because they don’t have a clue that their partner might be hurt.Chances are he is still hoping his marriage, your marriage, will miraculously become a marriage he loves to be in. So, you can choose to go with the idiot “experts” who get you to confront and destroy, or you can decide you want your marriage to survive and improve. Confront and destroy or survive and improve are the only two real options. That’s because I have seen many marriages succeed, including with wives that other marriage experts refused to work with. You can have the marriage you have and the marriage your husband delights in.The other choice, do nothing, is going to continue you down the road of destruction. Don’t imagine it will take both of you, or he has to participate. But women have to learn what their power is and how to use it.If you choose to save your marriage we can help you. You won’t get what you need from an article, but I want you to have enough information to begin heading in the right direction.