He’s courting you, being attentive and saying all the things you want to hear, which confuses you even further.So how do you decipher what’s going on and really figure out if this guy's serious about you?
Sadly, they exist in an emotional and therefore chaotic world.
This means that rather than following aforementioned progression, they follow a fickle and frightening trail right through the funhouse of feelings.
If either party is consistently unavailable on weekends, they're still shopping.
We both have stuff at the other person's home If you are comfortable with their things in your personal space and they are similarly content, then you've moved past casual.
One of the most difficult and dangerous steps on this perilous path is trying to determine when you have moved from the "casual" phase into the "committed" phase of the relationship.
What makes this so hard is that this change usually doesn't come with a ring. No one grows anything in their belly for nine months.
He’s willing to share himself with you and show vulnerability.
But here’s the caveat and where your listening will really come into play: There's a difference between a man who's willing to share for the sake of rehashing and Therein lies the difference in the man who is serious about you, versus the man who is NOT.
You both share the key aspects of your relationship vision. So you’re both looking for a serious relationship, but how do you know if he’s serious about you?
A man who's serious about a relationship is talking about serious things.
Since your partner is human, assume they are not hyper-logical.