As there is great importance attached to a woman’s youth, or at least appearance of youth, if you want to bag yourself a Japanese man then you first need to get that “perfect” skin. Acting shy will make you seem “cute”, and being a “cute girl” is what many Japanese girls strive to be.
With the majority of the foreigners on extended stays in Japan being male, and more Japanese women than men having a strong interest in languages and cultures other than their own, it’s natural that the most common international pairing for Japanese nationals is a Japanese woman and foreign man. Don’t say nice things about their girlfriends in front of others – 17.6 percent 5.
Of course, every society has its attractive and unattractive aspects, which Japanese women revealed by sharing both the things about their foreign boyfriends and husbands that thrilled them, as well as the less pleasant parts of the package deal of a romantic partner. Don’t have a good body – 14.5 percent It wasn’t all bad news as far as Japanese men were concerned, though.
The best course is to try to adopt all of the good points above, Japanese or foreign, and make sure you don’t let any of the bad ones get out of hand.
After all, no one outside of visa fraudsters chooses who to go out with by looking at their passport.
I think women who have those kinds of domestic ambitions are better off with a Japanese guy, since that pattern’s been the norm for Japanese couples for so long.” ▼ Could this be one reason why so many Japanese salarymen need to stop off for a drink before they arrive home?
Foreign men have a lot going against them, too, with the most obvious being the language barrier.
And things only get tougher if you and your spouse metamorphose into your stubborn, grumpy grandparents.
“As time goes by, my foreign husband and I argue more and more over food.
So with these strikes against them, how do foreign guys manage to snag a Japanese girl?
For starters, in contrast to the above-mentioned hands-off approach to the home many Japanese men have, Japanese women are often appreciative of the way their foreign beaus and hubbies pitch in around the house.
“I don’t know if he’s really diligent, or I’m just lazy, but I’m always impressed by how much my British husband does….