He thinks that unless everything is done on his terms, he’ll be perceived as weak-willed. Maybe it’s an old gender role, but men are expected to be reasonably handy.
He needs to know how to change a tire, mount a towel rack or at the very least, put together an IKEA bookshelf without bursting into tears.
And a grown-up man knows there’s no way to win an argument with a woman, anyway. You’re an independent, 21st-century woman — you don’t need a man to pay your bills.
I’m all for going out and getting blasted every once in a while, but after college, it shouldn’t be the whole point of every night out.Cleaning up his puke and dealing with his morning-after hangovers is going to get old fast.Nowadays, actual adulthood seems to begin around 30.We use our 20s to get all our partying and hookups out of our system — good for us.The problem with this prolonged adolescence, however, is that some people forget that they eventually do have to take some responsibility for their lives and become a useful member of society.
And since women tend to mature faster than men, it’s easy to understand the fairer sex’s frustrations about their dating options.No, I’m talking about the kind of games when he’s fucking with your mind. He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met.Basically, he hasn’t learned the difference between dating and being in a grown-up relationship. An actual adult would have already figured out he’s not the center of the goddamn universe.The older you get, the harder things become to accomplish.If he throws in the towel every time he meets a little bit of resistance, he’s still too wet behind the ears.He’s learned nothing from the past and has no plans for the future.