In general, I do not let guys get very close at all.While I have several groups of friends, it's pretty hard for me to let anyone get TOO close, even women.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!
Quite frankly, I could live without it the rest of my life and not really care.
In fact, I'd rather not have it, because I always worried slightly about pregnancy when it did happen, even protected. I feel like there is something wrong with me because I don't know any other girls that feel this way.
The other one ended in so much pain, betrayal, and hurt for me that I can't imagine going through that again.
I sometimes wonder if my lack of interest in dating is just a wall I've put up to prevent that from ever happening to me again.
When you were with your ex, how often were you interested in having sex?
If 3x per week is "average" for most married couples after a few years, how do you compare in a comparable scenario?For she goeth into love as she goeth into the waters at the seashore; first a hand and then a lip goeth she in by littles.She diveth not, she leapeth not from the pier; but by gentle shocks and cries of protest she entereth slowly; yet when the waters of love encompass her, then she is supported.There are lots of people who don't want those things, including people who may engage in them, just because they feel pressure to do so. As long as you are happy, and not hurting yourself or anyone else, yeah it's normal.It's either nature (asexuality) or nurture (scars from childhood and/or previous relationships) or, more probably a combination of the two. I compete in long distance running and train 8 to 10 miles per day plus more on the weekends, in addition to Cross Fit, lifting weights, etc. He was my "first" for sex and so most of my sexual experience was initiated with him.