where I feel like I’m having to pretend to be someone else. How this plays out in my life, especially in the aspect of career, is that I struggle doing work I don’t believe in and isn’t aligned with who I am.
If you want to truly have a meaningful Valentines Day, try going through these 15 crucial questions that will help you get to “?” Original Photo by Leland Francisco Marriage is like rolling Play-Doh, the more two different colors are meshed together the harder it becomes to distinguish one from another.A spouse should be like a gold miner, going under the surface to uncover the invaluable stuff underneath.Is the person you’re dating like a magnet trying to bring the best of you to the surface?As I wrote in “If your core values can’t dance together, then you’ll keep tripping, falling and wondering why you can’t move together in rhythm.” For example, you could have a high value for responsibility and the person you’re dating could have a high value for risk.
Both values are good, but if not articulated and discussed it could be a point of high conflict if the responsible person likes consistency and persistence, while the risk-taker likes changing things up and going for the impossible.Or are they challenging you to become a better, authentic you?Not trying to change you, but trying to bring the best to the top.And if you don’t know your values, how can you expect your partner to have a clue?Not all values are the same and sometimes you can have two very good people with very good values, but those values can feel at war with each other.Letting physical intimacy run wild and free typically means the emotional, spiritual, and personality attraction is lagging behind. Sex while dating can create many awful shades of gray, when what your relationship needs is some honest black and white.