Think: Demi Moore and boy toy Ashton Kutcher, or Nicollette Sheridans conniving Edie Britt on "Desperate Housewives," or Kim Cattralls tramptastic Samantha Jones on "Sex and the City." While were at it, lets throw in half of the older women in spinning class at Equinox gyms on the Upper East Side. "They dont have any hang-ups, theyre just looking for fun, theyve got great bodies. So if you meet one, suddenly youre at a table with about five good-looking guys." The other bartender, 35-year-old Joanna, says: "Youve got to take them back to your place, though, because theyve all got roommates. "Also, you dont want them too immature - like, any guy who orders a Long Island iced tea or some stupid new shot like liquid heroin.
Well just wait till she leans in for a sip and then . Visit Soho House, Lenox Room or Ava Lounge to see cougars in their natural habitat - strappy heels, cleavage, a little too much makeup and a glint in their eye. The two foxy older women behind the bar - Sabina and Joanna - serve up cans of Pabst plus a little wisdom on the cougar phenomenon."Hey, its great dating young guys," says Sabina, whos in her mid-30s and likes her men a decade younger.
Women get the athletic sex and, lets face it, guys get the easy sex."De Borchgrave says life is imitating art, as shows like "Sex and the City" and "Desperate Housewives" have removed the stigma of oversexed older women."They can be wonderful mini-relationships to revive the older woman and to give the younger guy a break from the really tedious hunt for a life partner," de Borchgrave says. Its the opportunity to have a no-nonsense approach to the bedroom."In New York City, where urban cougars are an indigenous species, The Post set out to see what happened when we dangled fresh meat in front of the local wildcats. You must be a model.""No, youve got to be on a soap opera! "How many floors do you think there are in this building?
"Rather than work on a relationship that might not go anywhere, its better to go younger and friskier. Thats a deal-breaker."Ben finishes his Pabst, and its back to the hunt. 7 - You Look Like a Million Ben saunters up to order a drink at the swanky Pen-Top lounge on the roof of the Peninsula Hotel.
Think: Chrissie Hynde, Debbie Harry, Joan Jett -COUGAR: Diana Perez, 43; HUNTER: Ben Rodriguez, 24 [Christian Johnston] -Ben Rodriguez chats up cougar Judy at Del Friscos restaurant.
[Christian Johnston] -Jerry Hall; Kim Cattrall; Catherine Deneuve; Demi Moore.
conventions, for example, tend to skew much, much older attracting 40-50 year olds relieving their teen years in a safe environment.
In an inverse to regular speed dating (and regular New York City demographics), men vastly outnumber women—the ratio is skewed to provide three guys to every girl.And, unlike traditional dating circles that try to encourage women to forgo feminist ideas in order to win true love—never call a man! To carve out a space where women set the tone for engagement is nothing less than amazing.One company, Lightning Fast Speed Dating, is combining the resurgence of nerdy pastimes and our increasingly single population’s quest for love. Its dangerous business, tracking a cougar - a sophisticated species of female who seeks the pleasure of younger males. No, better still, get her another cantaloupe martini.Tracey, the date wrangler and coordinator at Lightning Fast, notes that normally, gay men are the largest queer demographic at Speed Dating events, but at Comic Con, "girl-on-girl" action is taking precedence.