If you're worried you won't like the food, you can pick a place you have been to before. It means you can address them by their name and they will do the same.If you're worried she'll stand you up, pick a place that you would still enjoy by yourself or have a friend on standby. I am not shy but like you detest going to pubs and clubs for a hook up. Please make it a male waiter rather than a gorgeous female one.Stop putting women on such a high pedestal we're just women you wont be condemned to death by talking to us sorry to be harsh but grow a pair.
So you may find more here than are representative of the population in general.
Unfortunately, this only works if they are at least willing to approach and initiate conversation in writing.
You will find that the girls will walk up and say hello to you. spend anytime backstage and the sight of women in varying stages of undress, asking you to zip them up, unbutton this, clip up that ... Walking along a blackened stage and through the wings is also often done by touch.
This might be redundant though I searched I really didnt see a shy guy thread like this...
what are your experiences with shy men should I just give up on them? Some men are just not good with words, but are otherwise normal, regular guys without any hangups.
Other men are confused or wrapped up in themselves and need you to walk on eggshells and guess what they're feeling or what they want (because they're not sure). I do okay with shy men as long as they do loosen up after we've been talking a while, but for you, it sounds like they really drive you nuts, so I think you might as well skip 'em.
If they have trouble with even that little, this venue isn't going to help them.
Some guys are particularly shy because they feel like they are being scrutinized in every little detail.
It sounds like what you want is someone who's outgoing, but not pushy, and I don't think that's a tall order. And I don't think there's anything wrong with having the preference, either.
Many shy people labor under the mistaken impression that online "meeting" will be easier than approaching people in person, as it is more gradual.
I have no problem with initiating conversation but I'm not dragging it to the end and Im not asking him out thats a turn off to me.