Every time a girl meets a nice guy, he usually ends up falling straight into her friend zone.
It’s not her fault really, because he behaves like such a good friend that she has no choice but to look at him as a friend.
The bad boy wants to have sex with the girl, the girl wants to have sex with this crazy guy, and there’s a happy ending by the next morning. Sure, she needs both these guys to have a better life.
But would a girl fall in love with a bad boy if she knows that he’s a bad boy even before she dates him or likes him? But will she fall in love with any of them intentionally? 15 reasons why nice guys finish last all the time Nice guys make great friends, but terrible lovers.
[Read: 10 types of guys girls find creepy] Of course, bad boys are extremely attractive.
But I don’t think any girl takes a bad boy seriously or gives him a thought beyond a one night stand. They’re both the two extremes of a spectrum that girls don’t care about. And a nice guy gives a girl a chance to have a man Friday to run her errands.
Nice guys constantly look to the future for a better life, be it by earning more money or getting a great job, but do nothing to change the present even though they know they need to change their behavior. No one takes a nice guy seriously because he never wants to offend anyone. No girl notices them until they make a move *as a friend* and then it’s all too late.
He’s too accommodating and everyone treats him like a pushover. They may want to lead, but never make the effort or take the initiative directly. [Read: Do girls ever like shy guys who don’t make a move? Nice guys are always intimidated by strong personalities.
Do you feel like nice guys always finish last no matter what they do or how hard they try? Instead, look inward and ask yourself if you’re the kind of nice guy that all girls choose to avoid. But they definitely don’t like a guy who goes overboard in trying to please them all the time, especially if they’re not in a relationship already.
Yes, there are different kinds of nice guys, and almost all of them aren’t really as good as they think they are. A regular guy may be nice to a girl, but a nice guy almost always ends up looking desperate and eager to please.
But can you really wait until you’re in your 40’s before you can start impressing women?
If you’re fine with that thought, go right ahead and lead your life the way you always have been.
[Read: How to avoid her friend zone and make her desire you] After all, a guy who likes a girl will try to flirt with her or tease her, not just ask her if it’s okay to carry her grocery bags or wash her car for her. They don’t mind making fun of themselves or putting themselves down all the time, and they don’t care about getting pushed around by other guys. Nice guys are too sweet to voice their real opinions and end up frustrating themselves.